Life isn’t easy if you try hard all the time. It becomes more difficult when you expect from others. And this becomes the reason for your unhappiness and sadness. Over-thinking kills you every day and night. You become insomniac, restless, and tired. This eventually leads you to your decline and you give up so easily. Your tears and emotions make you weak. And these are the parts and the parcel of your life. For a while, if you give up, this is still okay. Get up and start again. These moments are the tests to check your patience level. These moments are created by the Almighty to make you stronger than earlier. These moments are the lessons to teach you to create your new plan with no error. These moments are the healthy moments to let you see the reality of the world. There are certain common mistakes we do in our lives that create a negative environment around you to make you weak, think negative, and stay unhappy. After your decline life’s rituals become more difficult to follow. Here I have 10 amazing ways to follow life’s rituals amazingly.
- Develop healthy habits.
No one but only you know the best what are your good and bad habits. You are mature enough to identify them. List them all, good and bad. We give excuses, procrastinate, live in the past, lose productivity sleeping excessively, don’t use your opportunities wisely, and so on. Find the best you. Find the best today forgetting yesterday. This is the time to develop the best habits that benefit you greatly. Create the best living being happy with nature. Wake up early and see the dawn whispering, blooming buds, and dewdrop on the grasses, such a coolness of eyes. Read inspirations, write your goals, purify your soul spiritually, meditate for your calm and healthy mind, and be amazing.
2. Set your short term goals and stay affirmed
We all dream big but the short-term goals are those small steps that lead you towards your success. Those small steps are in the form of a ladder to climb and achieve your dreams. Eliminate all distractions. Be a horse. A horse whose eyelids are covered with the blinkers to make them focus and run straight until the destination arrives. Plan for your short term goals and achieve them all by and by. No matter how many times you fail, just get up and start again. There is nothing that can stop you but you only. So continue until you achieve success. Your failures are actually your teachers to teach you and expertise your subjects. Achieve success and clap for yourself.
3. Escalate the beauty of “new you”.
After you wire new habits, you find yourself “a completely new you”. Adore yourself in the mirror and feel how amazing you are. Your self-confidence will be enhanced automatically because that will be your first successful step towards living yourself beautifully. You will be able to follow your life’s ritual easily. You won’t waste time overthinking and become highly productive. You won’t give excuses but to love your job and become the finisher. You will be happy to see yourself accepting the changes which earlier you used to resist. And you will fall in love with yourself that eventually leads you to improve yourself daily.
4. Use your placards wisely (yes or no)
If you are an athlete or sports enthusiast, you might be knowing about sprint hurdles. It’s a running race with several hurdles. You need to jump the barriers while running fast, being fastest to win the race. In life as well you will find many difficulties to live. But if you are consistent, taking the right decisions for your life, half of the barriers will be jumped successfully. Do you say ‘yes’ all the time even when you don’t agree? Just because you can’t annoy anyone, you don’t need to put yourself in terms of stress. Just hold your placards correctly. Say yes only when you agree or comfortable or happy doing certain tasks. Say yes which is challenging to improve yourself. Say no to the toxicity that ruins you within, makes you weak, makes you lose your productivity, makes you stressed. Be wise to decide whether you have to say yes or no. Your correct decisions may lead you to happiness and dreams. They will help you to create a blissful life and spread happiness all around.
5. Be appreciative.
Appreciate what you have. Gratitude is the best way to value what you have. Complaining all the time is nothing but circumambulating yourself with a negative boundary. That puts you in terms of pain. Makes you less productive. Gratitude is the best way to feel contented. That brings the blissful moments to laugh together with your beloved ones. That will not let you be annoyed and sad but surround yourself with happiness and love. I know it’s easy to say but the best is always to practice and expertise to prepare yourself for all kinds of situations. Appreciate yourself for putting lots of effort to achieve your dreams. Appreciate yourself for not letting yourself give up. Appreciate everything you have because there are millions of people that are still striving hard to reach at least at your level.
6. Elevate your self-love.
No matter how busy you are, put yourself first in your priorities. There is no such magical mirror whom you can ask who is the fairest one. The fairest is the one who has a beautiful and pure heart. The fairest is the one who has a peaceful soul. The fairest is the one who has a healthy and positive mind. You are full of uniqueness because there is no other ‘you’. Not even your mirror can reveal real ‘you’. Love yourself, adore yourself. You are the best version of you because only you know your problems and the solutions as well. Only you know what are weaknesses and strengths. Work on yourself, polish yourself, and elevate yourself to reach success. You are the hero of your own story. You are the king of your own kingdom. Everything is in your hands. Don’t depend on fates. You can change your life. You can switch your ways. You can turn your sadness into happiness. And you can change your dreams into reality, believe yourself.
7. Have self-respect.
You know your worth. Never put yourself down. You will lose yourself. Self-respect is the key to gain more respect from others. It’s a way to elevate yourself. It’s a way to know your worth. Don’t try hard pleasing the people who don’t value you. Find your ways to be happy always. Live in a blissful environment, clap for yourself, express gratitude, celebrate yourself, and gradually move towards your success. Learn from your enemies who criticise you all the time, they give you many chances to improve yourself. Work on the areas where you are lagging and pull yourself a little more to reach the peak of the mountain. You will win with your own worth.
8. Be the contributor and benevolent.
No matter how rich or successful you are, be down to earth. Help the needy. Be a contributor to society. Making a child smile with your efforts is the most beautiful and kind act. Make sure your hands are involved in doing good only. Do beautiful things with your hands. I am sure you will feel great and blissful. Invest your time and money to do good deeds and your karma will return to you eventually.
9. Enhance your inner beauty.
The most beautiful way to enhance your inner beauty is to remain calm and think healthy. Nature helps us to do so. Meditate, walk in nature, see the birds flying, blooming buds, playing dew drops on the plants and flowers, adore your every morning with beautiful nature, read and write beautiful lines. Create a positive and blissful environment. Surround yourself with positivity. Your inner beauty is the real beauty of your character. Be good for no reason. There is no need to be a popular and well-known person but a good human being. Be kind of a person who is loved by everyone and not known by everyone.
10. Be buoyant and resilient.
Feel lighthearted with no sorrow in your heart. For you know very well, a heavy heart kills all the blissful moments that you would thoroughly enjoy with your beloved ones. Be self-reliant for everything, for you know very well relying on your own self will make you more productive and skilful. It’s worthless crying for help, give your 100℅ to save your boat from drowning. Always have a positive attitude that your hard time isn’t permanent. This hard time will pass away making you stronger.
“You are gorgeous if you believe. You are ugly if you believe.”
Your life is very precious. Live every moment. You are meant to enjoy both, pain and bliss. Follow your life’s rituals amazingly.